The story - My Girlfriend Super Posesif

The story -  I have an account about relationships with possessive guys 

Let me introduce you, my name is Aurel I'm an art director at an agency at that time I was 32 years old and today is exactly six months I was single 

The reason I broke up with my guy, huh ... "RIGHT" is already not in line that way ... It's a problem, and it's a cliché to be bored with me 

Ever since I broke up, many of my friends have suggested searching instead I have head age three if over time I will be afraid to lose the spare parts 

I just want to want it but also tired if told to acquaintance again, approach again, more pleasantries from the beginning ughh ... 

Until one day my friends in a scene playing TINDER he said anyway this application is booming 

Especially Carla "my best friend" just got a date from TINDER. I think it's funny, so I'm just trying it out and the result... 

Many matches with me so many. I made the ancient Greek method, aka CAP CIP CUP KEMBANG KEY! but... of the many who match, there is one guy that caught my attention 

Then we get to know and chat intensely 

Finally, I dare myself to meet with DITO. When I meet the kids, it's cool Saucy ... fragrant ... like my mother's laundry RenderMan 

Geez ... it's okay but... apart from that, I admit our chat is connected proven in conversation until move video call, everything we discuss is always fun and funny 

From there I slowly began to fall in love with DITO 

For a year dating, our relationship is excellent, there must be a problem, but it's not that heavy just enough king kong beraaaat ... 

But I admit sometimes some things make me resentful with Dito he is jealous over protective anyway ... sometimes the slightest idea becomes a big problem 

I hang out with my office friends, she's so complicated like not happy like that even though I also need to live like an average person, right? 

Btw ... 

Besides Carla, I also have a friend who fits me. He's always been my place to complain; his name is Ryan ... 

Even though he's a guy, as much as he does, it seems like a bit of meow-style benches. So calm down! He won't beat me hahaha that has my male patch 

Until one day after work meeting 

Ryan and I drink spoiled coffee near the office, uh ... when Dito knew I was walking with Ryan, he was mad ... I explained at length to Dito in the end he doesn't want to know and still insists if I'm wrong 

Keep... Instead of making a fuss, and I'd better just lose it for the sake of the continuity of our relationship I slowly followed the rules of his game until finally, it brought me with Dito to step into a more serious level 

Dito came to my house with his family to propose there both families agreed on the date and place of the wedding 

Alhamdulillah 

Finally, I no more extended SOLO PLAYER don't you play together more fun ... which is I don't need to be worried anymore if there is a catch it like that 

Time goes so fast it feels like everything that happened was just yesterday afternoon ... 

Well... because I want to share this happiness finally I met up with my friends for the bridal shower I have mixed feelings there 

Everything I invited was a girl, except Ryan, do you know why? the basketball team's mother is the mascot 

So if there isn't Ryan, it won't be crowded! All the laughter broke out as Ryan started gossiping about people from the Sandra who is said to be having an affair with an intern 

Amel is said to be a social gathering money 
then Sir Rahman, who was said to have been sprayed by his wife, because he was tempted by his secretary hahaha julid bet that Ryan 

finished my bridal shower I felt something was strange with Dito as if keeping a distance 

Because I don't like being ignored finally I promised to meet with Dito I got home from work picked up with him 

In the car, during the trip, we are accompanied finally I open the chat so that it isn't very harsh 

But he left me even though I asked nicely I try to remember. Is there something wrong with me? Hmmm... 

Yesterday's feeling at my bridal shower wasn't weird. Then, when he entered the toll road, he suddenly said this to me, "Do you realize what you're doing is wrong!" hah? 

Suddenly I was scattered with questions whose answers I didn't know then ... I haven't answered yet, eh, he's dreaming again, "Why are you shut up? Answer me!" 

I don't know why my tongue is stiff like that for an answer Is it because of my adrenaline rush? I just replied, "For what reason would you say you are furious about not being clear?

What the problem?" uh ... rather than replying, he quickly hurried up progressively quick and quick because he touched off feelings

Original, I can't help thinking he can be this angry. I was shocked and scared I say to him, "the o,one who already ... Please slow down ... I'm afraid!" 

He was getting even more racing and racing until finally, I shouted 

Finally, Dito began to reduce speed. He looked at me with short, hard breaths. "You welcomed Ryan to the pre-wedding party yesterday?" I just answer yes 

There I just remembered, if the Dito was jealous and angry because I invited Ryan and this is not the first time he is jealous of me 

From the first, he always curbed and forbade me to be close to my friends including Ryan 

Even though I've explained that Ryan's sissy, so yeah ... You don't need to be jealous like that 

But all this for Dito is a big problem right at home 

When I was at home in my WA, he felt like I didn't appreciate his feelings and he finally decided to not go to marriage 

Though marriage is less than two weeks 

WO, Catering, Videographer even the invitation was already prepared by me how could he cancel the marriage as good as the forehead ... 

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And the way I just stayed silent without a response like there's a feeling that I can't express 

Do I have to marry a guy with such a possessive model? But I'm sure Dito just sulk like rich usually I shouldn't be surprised by this 

you know that there is a love drama I slowly seduced him to let me reconcile with this feeling 

After all, life is not that trivial later when married the problems will come and thank God he slowly changed to reduce his ego 

Read also: The story - LDR: Long Distance Relationship

With feeling and relief, WE DID IT! Finally, we married Ruan was also present at my wedding 

The key is one! Trust and openness here I and Dito learn many things I hope that our lives will be happy without being bound and constrained and of course, I can still enjoy my own time with my friends 

I am sure this new leaf is a meaningful lesson for my partner and me about the importance of openness and trust 

Jealousy is natural, but jealousy can't be controlled calm down ... Everything will get better soon, thank you ...